Know yourself so deeply so that other people's opinions hold zero value in your life.

If you don't know yourself, you will drift through life according to the opinions of others, mistaking the external world for fact.

Even worse, you will be forever at the mercy of other people.

Someone disrespects you - you question your very existence.
Someone respects you - you believe you are worth it.
Someone ignores you - you assume you don't matter at all.

Your beliefs change according to the actions of others.

But how can someone tell you who you are when they don't know your story, your strength, your struggles?

You're fragile to the opinions of others because you don't have a strong sense of self. And that's a very dangerous place to be.

Determine what it means to you to be you.

Set daily quests and monthly missions to become that... and that's how you bring a strong sense of self into your life.